Online Therapy for Grief & Loss in New York

Grief can have a profound impact on young adults, influencing their emotional, mental, and even physical well-being. It may disrupt their sense of identity and stability, leading to feelings of confusion, anxiety, and loneliness. They might struggle with maintaining relationships, focusing on work or school, and managing responsibilities. This stage of life is often marked by significant transitions, and grief can heighten stress and complicate these changes. Grieving young adults may benefit from a safe space to process their emotions and learn healthy coping strategies.

Losing a parent at a young age can leave lasting emotional scars, shaping one’s sense of security and self-worth. It may lead to difficulties in forming or maintaining relationships, fear of abandonment, or challenges in trusting others. Some individuals might develop heightened resilience and independence, while others may experience prolonged grief or depression. This loss can also influence major life decisions, as young adults often miss the guidance and support of their parent. Grief therapy can help individuals navigate these long-term effects and foster emotional healing.

Adults commonly experience a wide range of reactions to grief, including sadness, anger, guilt, or numbness. Physical symptoms such as fatigue, changes in appetite, and sleep disturbances are also common. Many individuals find themselves reflecting deeply on the meaning of life or questioning their beliefs. Grief may also trigger unexpected emotional outbursts or difficulty concentrating. These reactions are normal and vary greatly from person to person. Acknowledging and processing these feelings in a supportive environment can help individuals navigate the grieving process.

Grief doesn’t follow a fixed timeline and varies widely from person to person. Acute grief often lasts for several months, but the overall grieving process can extend over a year or longer. It’s common for feelings of loss to resurface during significant milestones or anniversaries. While some aspects of grief may lessen over time, it’s important to remember that healing is not linear. Therapy can provide tools to navigate grief, no matter where someone is in their journey.

Individual therapy is often highly effective for addressing grief, allowing clients to explore their emotions and experiences in a private setting. Approaches such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) can be particularly helpful. Group therapy provides an opportunity to connect with others who are also grieving, fostering a sense of community and understanding. The best approach depends on the individual’s preferences, needs, and circumstances.

There is no right or wrong time to start grief counseling. Some individuals seek support immediately after a loss, while others wait weeks, months, or even years. If grief begins to interfere with daily life, relationships, or emotional well-being, it’s a good time to consider therapy. The most important factor is the individual’s readiness to explore their feelings and begin the healing process.

Yes, grief can significantly impact physical health. The stress of grief activates the body's stress response, releasing cortisol, which can weaken the immune system, increase blood pressure, and contribute to inflammation. This heightened stress can lead to headaches, digestive issues, fatigue, and sleep disturbances.

Grief is also linked to an increased risk of heart problems, sometimes referred to as “broken heart syndrome” (stress-induced cardiomyopathy), which can mimic a heart attack. Chronic grief may contribute to long-term health conditions such as high blood pressure, heart disease, and weakened immunity, making individuals more susceptible to illnesses.

Additionally, grief can alter appetite, leading to weight loss or gain, and may reduce motivation for physical activity, affecting overall well-being. Sleep disturbances are common, contributing to exhaustion and cognitive difficulties.

Emotional pain can manifest physically, causing muscle tension, body aches, or even exacerbating pre-existing health conditions. People experiencing deep grief may also engage in unhealthy coping behaviors, such as substance use or neglecting self-care, further affecting their physical health.

While grief is a natural process, prolonged or intense grief may require professional support to prevent long-term health consequences. Prioritizing self-care, social support, and seeking help when needed can aid in managing grief’s physical effects.

I am in-network with UMR insurance for employees of Mount Sinai Hospital, including all locations and offices throughout New York state. If you are covered by this insurance, therapy with me is completely free of charge to you - not even a copay! As a previous Mount Sinai employee for 7 years, I understand the unique demands and challenges of the hospital system and the emotional toll of providing quality patient care.

I am an out-of-network provider for all other insurance plans. I choose this so that your insurance company does not put your mental health diagnosis in a box or determine how many sessions are “necessary” as grief is ongoing. However many insurance policies have out-of-network benefits and this is how many of my clients make therapy more affordable. I am happy to walk you through this process so it feels more manageable for you. It may be confusing the first time, but once you complete it, it will be easier. Here are the steps:

1. Call the phone number on the back of your insurance card and ask the following questions

2. What is my deductible (this is a dollar amount you have to hit before your benefits kick in), and what month does it reset?

3. What is my out of network reimbursement rate for 45-minute psychotherapy (CPT Code 90834)? (Percentage they will reimburse you)

Services are paid for at the time of appointment. Most people choose to keep a card on file for ease of payment. Then I provide you with a Superbill (basically a receipt of our sessions with the necessary info) which you can submit to your insurance. I am happy to explain this process over the phone as well, and walk you through it until it makes sense.

In addition to therapy, support groups can be a valuable resource for individuals who are grieving. These groups provide a space to share experiences and connect with others facing similar challenges. Books, podcasts, and online forums about grief can also offer insights and comfort. Close friends and family members often play a crucial role in providing emotional support. For immediate needs, there are crisis hotlines and community organizations dedicated to helping those in grief. If you need additional support, I am happy to recommend you to additional services that are convenient for you.

Yes, I offer virtual sessions to accommodate clients who prefer the convenience of remote counseling. Online therapy allows you to receive support from the comfort of your own home, making it accessible even for those with busy schedules or limited mobility. Virtual sessions are conducted through a secure platform to ensure your privacy.

If you are covered by UMR Mount Sinai insurance, sessions are completely covered with $0 copay.

Sessions are otherwise $250 each. Each session lasts 45 minutes. Payment is due at the time of service, and I accept various forms of payment. If you have out-of-network benefits, I can provide a superbill for potential reimbursement. Please feel free to reach out if you have additional questions about fees or payment options. Occasionally I have availability for sliding scale costs, so please reach out and we can discuss which options are available.